Jane VanOsdol of www.onlybyprayer.com and I had such a good time talking during her Talkshoe program the other week.  If you haven’t had the opportunity to listen to it yet, I wanted to make it easy for you to do so.

We talked about so many things! From stress management to the strain illness can cause marriages (and what to do about it) to getting the emotional and financial help you need.  That’s just the beginning!  I LOVED my time with Jane, and I know this discussion will bless you as much as it did me.  To listen, follow this link to Jane’s site: http://onlybyprayer.com/parenting-chronically-ill-children-with-kimberly-ehlers/

When you get there, you’ll see the player (a small arrow) at the end of the article under the Sharing is Caring options.  If the interview does bless you, please take a few seconds to use those options to share with your friends and family.  After you listen, I’d love to hear your thoughts!

In His Love,

Kimberly

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How We Notebook Videos

by Kimberly on April 26, 2012

Because of the incredible sale Cindy Rushton is having this week on her amazing notebooking set (it truly is all you need to successfully begin notebooking with your child today), I wanted to share with you what notebooking looks like at our house.

Please remember that if you use my affiliate link to purchase Cindy’s set to e-mail me letting me know and telling me which 1 product from my e-store you would like to have for free.  I’ll get it to you ASAP.

Also, if you watch closely, you’ll get a sneak peak at some of the wonderful material you’ll receive in Cindy’s notebooking set…

The first video is a little longer, but I show you exactly what we do - how we keep it simple and a few of the pages from Cindy’s set we love.  I also share why notebooking has been such a blessing to us.  Enjoy!

 

 In this short video, you get to see our “notebooking station”.  It’s where we keep all our material to get to easily.  The green notebook is the binder we use during the year to store all the pages Seth makes.  At the end of the year, we make his “official” books.  You can read Cindy’s article to learn more, but she does a great job of explaining this in her sets.  (I apologize in advanced for looking of to the side in this video.  This camera is new to me, and I’m still getting use to it!)

 This set is worth way more than $100.  Get it now for only $37!

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Yep, there are only 3 warning signs that your child’s illness is destroying your marriage.  I really wish there were more.  I’d love to give you a long list that would give you some breathing room and not add to your stress.  I’d love it if the list were so long you could say,”Well, OK, so my husband and I have trouble in 2 areas, but there are 5 (or 10 or 20) where we’re doing really well.  We’re not so bad!”.  But there aren’t 10 or 20 warning signs to watch out for – there are only 3.

You may have noticed that since discovering your child’s health problem your marriage has been on rocky ground.  (Praise God and thank Him endlessly if your marriage is one of the rare ones that actually became stronger because of the illness.) As I shared with Jane of www.onlybyprayer.com during our recent interview, satan is our adversary.  It’s who he is and it’s what he does.  He loves to throw adversity into our paths.  When our child has an illness it’s as if our marriage now has a giant target on it.  We now have a weak spot and you can count on the devil to shoot at it over and over again.

BUT, if you know these 3 warning signs (because there’s only 3, they’re easier to remember), you will be able to recognize them right away and join Christ in battling them.  The battle is God’s, but we have to cooperate.  “You will not  need  to fight in this  battle.  Position yourselves, stand still and see the salvation of the Lord, who is with you, O Judah and Jerusalem! Do not fear or be dismayed; tomorrow go out against them, for the Lord  is  with you.” (2 Chronicles 20:17 NKJV) We show up to the battle, confront it head on, and God does the fighting for us.  When we show up to the battle, we are choosing sides.  It’s at that moment that we decide whose plan we want to follow – the devil’s or God’s. We face these decisions all the time. Something or someone pushes us to the brink and our flesh wants badly to respond in a way that we know doesn’t please God.  It’s at that moment when we have to decide who we’ll obey – the devil and our fleshly desires or God.  Let’s look at the 3 warnings which are also lies satan would love for us to swallow.  Following the warnings/lies, you will find verses that reveal God’s truth.

Warnings/LiesGod’s Truth
#1 Spending time alone with my husband isn’t important. When’s the last time you went on a date and didn’t talk about your child or money?

#2 I’m the expert. You not only believe you know better than your spouse when it comes to caring for your child, but you also believe you love your child more.

#3 If I do need advice, my husband is the last person I’d ask. You will search the internet or ask your Twitter friends for their opinion before you even mention a problem to your spouse.

#1 “Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband,” (1 Corinithians 7:3, NKJV)

#2 “Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil;” (1 Corinthians 13:4-5, NKJV)

#3 “Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband,” (Ephesians 5:33, NKJV).

Why are these warnings so bad?  Each way of thinking serves to separate you from your husband.  They bring division into our homes when we need to be a united front more than ever.

You may struggle with leaving your child in anyone’s care.  If you have never had someone else watch him or her, I suggest that you start small.  Have someone come over so you and your husband can take a short walk together or spend 1/2 an hour at the local coffee shop.  You can slowly make your dates a little longer each time so that everyone’s comfortable.

Now, if you will not leave your child with your husband (either because you don’t trust him or he’s nervous about the idea) things need to change.  Your husband needs to learn what is involved in caring for your child for a couple of reasons:

1.  He will better understand the amount of stress you are under and be able to give you the help you need.

2.  What if something happened to you?  This was another great point my friend, Jane, made.  It would be horrible if you were unable to take care of your child and your husband didn’t know how.

What do you do if you struggle with any of these warnings?

  • Print out the verses under the God’s Truth tab and repeat them often. It will take awhile, but the more you repeat them and practice living them the sooner you will find yourself believing them.
  • Spend time with God digging into why you struggle with a certain warning/lie.  Ask Him to reveal His truth and heal the hurts you’ve suffered or lies you’ve believed.
  • The next time you are on the battle lines and you have to decide between following the lie or trusting in God’s truth, choose to follow God and hand the battle over to Him.

What’s your biggest struggle?  Did any of the verses about God’s Truths stick out to you as being tough?

In His Love,

Kimberly

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Let’s Try Notebooking by Cindy Rushton

by Kimberly on April 22, 2012

Notebooking, ahhh, just the thought makes me hyper! If I could ask every homeschooling family to do just one thing, it would be to just give notebooking a try. This is the one technique that pulls everything together – studies, research, real life, personal interests – everything! It reaches even the most reluctant writer. It makes homeschooling fun and easy. Who wouldn’t want to try that?

Not just that! Everything that normally clutters up the busy homeschool home can be tucked away into a notebook! All of those precious narrations can be safely protected in notebooks. All of those daily copywork lessons can find their home in notebooks on each of the topics that your children love so much. Even those awesome handouts that you have piled up from field trips can find the perfect home in your notebooks! Homeschooling is recorded. An heirloom is built!

Want to Give It a Try?

Getting started is as easy as ABC. Let me take you through the easy steps:

1. Gather your supplies. Your supplies can be as simple as a three-ring binder per child, plastic sheet protectors, and a pencil per child. You can make this as simple or as crafty as you like! Over the years, notebooking has worked so wonderfully in our home that we are constantly on the lookout for different and fun supplies during our daily notebooking time. By doing so, our daily lessons are as fun as a scrapbooking party every day!

2. Make your supplies accessible. Set aside a place for your material and a place for your children to work. There is something wonderful about having a place fore everything and everything reliably in its place. The work in the beginning is well worth the time during the school year. We have a shelf that contains books that I find along the way with great copywork that I would like for my children to add to their notebooks on those no ideas are flowing days. Just having everything there, ready to go, is such a blessing on those busy mornings. Plus, I have learned over the years that this is the best way to really utilize the resources that I have on my shelves.

Just file away any pages or pictures in either manila envelopes or file folders. If the children know where they are, they are more than likely to use them on their own. Also, you will want to use anything else that you have in your home. I keep our paints, papers (plain and colored cardstock and 20 lb. paper; writing paper, etc.), glues, templates, cutting utensils, rulers, markers, pens, pencils, etc. on a shelf and in plastic bins by our dining table (where we do our daily lessons). They are in their spot and that spot is close by. If we want to encourage our young writers, we must give them free access to the best materials.

3. Turn your children loose! Yep! This is all that is left! Inevitably, when I teach workshops on notebooking, I can almost see the brains of mothers clicking away with one tough reality.  If only I had more time to do this!  Oh, beloved! Notebooking is not another thing for you to do! The hard part is learning what this is all about and how to get everything together so we can turn our children loose!

When we began notebooking, I copied a Bible verse a day as a model for my son to copy. As he copied his verse, he would place his page for the day in a plastic sheet protector and add it to his notebook. The next day, his page for that day would slide in behind that page. The next day, he would add another page in another page protector. We built the entire notebook; not specific divisions or subjects. We chose not to divide by subjects because we wanted a nice full “product” built over time. As we added to the notebook each day, I could see the delight building in my young writers. they would sit and just flip through the pages. They loved seeing success. They loved seeing the notebook build up.

As time went on, my son began to find and copy poems that he liked, songs from the church hymnal or from his history lessons. He began a collection of art prints. He added maps that highlighted journeys. At the end of the first year, we had a bulging notebook and a young writer who had gone from reluctant to really excited! The notebook quickly became “his own” notebook. At the end of the year, we divided our notebooks (there was no room to add anything else) into obvious divisions. We had a Bible notebook, a history notebook, a poetry notebook, and another copybook. All of these have continued and several have divided into other notebooks through the years (he now has four history notebooks—Great Men and Women of the Civil War, Battles of the Civil War, Military Notebook, and World History Timeline Notebook! And that is just history!). As your children dig into their interests, they may have other notebooks that develop. Let them go! You will learn more about your children as they learn more about topics and writing!

So, What Do You Think? Want to give it a try? If I could ask every homeschooling family to do just one thing, it would be to just give notebooking a try. So, think about it. Pray about it. Then, get those supplies. Set aside a spot for your supplies. Then, turn those budding young writers loose!

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Need MORE Help?   Cindy Rushton, who has become known as THE BINDER QUEEN, uses notebooking for EVERY subject in her homeschool. She will show you how to begin whether your child is a toddler or the most skeptical high schooler. AND she will take your hand as she walks you through notebooking each subject. Wonder how? Don’t miss her crazy offer here: http://tinyurl.com/893eyl2

(To be clear and to SWEETEN the deal, the above link is my affiliate link.  I became Cindy’s affiliate because she introduced my family to notebooking, and I am so grateful for her!  I am also proud to share her incredible sets with you – I love them and know they will bless your family too.  How will I sweeten the deal?  Well, if you use my link above to get Cindy’s set for a steal at $37, you can also pick out any 1 item from MY estore for free.  Just e-mail me letting me know that you ordered through my link and what item you would like :) !)

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Hi, Everyone,
I was blessed with the opportunity to do an interview with a friend, Christina Pilkington, about homeschooling a child with a serious/chronic illness. You can read that interview here: http://christinapilkington.com/2012/04/14/homeschooling-with-a-sick-child-my-interview-with-kimberly-ehlers/ .  If you homeschool, I can’t recommend getting connected with Christina enough.  She is  smart, sweet, and full of incredible ideas that help you to take advantage of your child’s interests and talents to give them an excellent education.  You will love her.

Also, on Monday, I am doing a live interview with Jane from www.onlybyprayer.com.  You know her sister, Mary, from the wonderful Take 5! devotions she provides for us.  I can’t tell you how much I’m looking forward to this talk with Jane.  She chose some excellent topics like stress and marriage.  It’s going to be a great program, and I’m thrilled to be part of it.  If you follow the link below you will find out how you can join us (it’s at 1:00 CST).  If you can’t make it live you will be able to listen at your convenience.  I would love to “see” you there!

Only By Prayer Podcast – Live & Recorded Episodes:

In His Love,

Kimberly

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Take 5! with Mary Kane – Good Things

March 28, 2012
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Mary Kane of www.onlybyprayer.com is back to share a beautiful reminder of the good things God does for us.  These good things are not things we wish He would do, but they are what His sacred Word tell us He does.  I pray that these good things will really sink into your hearts and renew [...]

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Fear – Are We Feeding Satan’s Ego?

March 27, 2012
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Yesterday, I started reading the book of Job again, I’d like to share my thoughts with you, and, hopefully, hear yours.  This time I was struck at how arrogantly satan waltzed right up to God with his evil little plan.  I thought, “Who does he think he is?”  To talk to God with no humility [...]

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